Life is a marathon. We will all “start living” the life we choose at different times. When that’s understood, you will realize there is no competition, only your journey to your desired destination. Everything you see is not meant for you at a certain time. On the flip, what you’ve done and how soon you done it doesn’t hold weight in the next persons life either. Aspire to have what you want and get it. Don’t compare with the non competing.
It’s all about the finish line of personal happiness. Be happy with your life and have security with the life you chose. No need to measure, compete or create timelines. It’s a distraction from your own path. Love your life and let everyone else live the life they are loving.