As I grow into being a real adult and a real man, it’s becoming natural and obvious to me that I have to assume a leadership role. I must provide a certain level of comfort and satisfaction if I want to be considered the head of a household. That leadership role must include a foundation of love.
You can only lead with love. Because love requires compassion and empathy. It carries concern for others and hopes for their security and evolution as well as yours. That love “figures it out”. It makes sure things are better than “good” or “ok”. Being a leader with love is the ultimate sacrifice for the greater good. Yourself for others.
Think of a great leader. How did they demonstrate their love?